The effects often become more severe
Alcohol problems rarely remain exactly the same. Over time, drinking may become more frequent, larger amounts of alcohol may be needed to achieve the same effect, and the impact on health, relationships and daily life often becomes more noticeable.
Every person's experience is different, but alcohol abuse is generally a progressive condition. Without help, the consequences often become more serious over time.
Alcohol abuse can have serious consequences
Continuing to drink heavily can affect almost every part of a person's life. Relationships may break down, employment may be lost, financial problems can develop and physical and mental health often deteriorate over time.
Alcohol abuse is also associated with accidents, violence, serious illness and, for some people, death. Not everyone will experience these outcomes, but they are real risks that should never be ignored.
You cannot make them stop
It is natural to want to rescue someone you love. However, no one can make another person stop drinking if they are not ready to do so themselves.
Accepting this can be painful, but it also helps you focus on the things that are within your own control.
You need to protect yourself as well
If someone's drinking continues, it is important to think about your own wellbeing as well as theirs. Looking after your physical and emotional health is not giving up on them.
Sometimes this may involve setting boundaries, seeking support or making difficult decisions to keep yourself and your family safe.
Recovery is still possible
Many people do recover from alcohol dependence, even after years of drinking. However, some never seek help, and others die as a result of alcohol-related illness, accidents or other consequences of their drinking.
No one can predict which path another person will take. That uncertainty is why seeking support for yourself is so important, whatever happens in the future.