Questions
These are some of the questions almost everyone asks when someone they love has a problem with alcohol.
The answers are intentionally brief and honest.
If you can't find your question, ask it in the Community or Contact me. If it's something other families are likely to ask, I'll add it here.
Can I make them stop drinking?
No. You cannot make another person stop drinking. Only they can decide to stop.
Why couldn't they stop?
Because wanting to stop and being able to stop are not always the same thing.
Why do they lie?
Because protecting their drinking often becomes more important than telling the truth.
Is it my fault?
No. You did not cause another person's drinking.
Why do they choose alcohol over us?
They aren't choosing alcohol over you. They are choosing alcohol over everything.
Will they ever stop?
Some people do. Some people never do. Nobody can honestly predict what another person will choose.
Should I leave?
Only you can answer that. Your safety and wellbeing should always come first.
Can I trust them?
Trust is rebuilt through consistent actions, not repeated promises.
What about the children?
Children are often affected more than adults realise. They need honesty, stability and support.
I can't find my question.
Please ask it in the Community or Contact me directly. If it's something many families are likely to ask, I'll add it to this page.